another day,another whirlwind

i'm blogging again...nvm.Lots of stuff happened today.starting in the morning: Woke up early to go to school for the Meridian Leaders Day...can't the school just leave that extra hour of sleep alone??!!i mean,they've been having activities in that time slot for as long as i care to remember...KI was fun today where chen shien told us about probability and odds and we had a lot of fun arguing and thinking...somehow or other, we free-associated all over the place and raised topics that had almost no link to the scheduled one. Then during recess, we celebrated Li Ying's birthday...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!...as i wrote in her card, one more year,one more wrinkle or as i read somewhere,"its a joy to grow older.the mind gets better but everything else starts breaking down". later, is skipped cca to study/do work...i really think that it was a better use of time than to slack off during cca...unless cca was something more interesting like basketball or soccer or squash or badminton...basically most of the sports.we couldn't have bowling training today because wilberg cancelled last minute on us...ben was damn pissed,and he remained pissed for the whole day...i can understand that,i mean,if you're the emotional type,certain strong emotions can stay with you for quite a long time.
oh,today was also a milestone in that I FINALLY PASSED AN ECONS TEST!!!yep,got an 11/15...i am really satisfied with that grade...i suppose some of that satisfactio comes from a subconcious need to prove to myself that i can still work and study...what with the mid-years and the chem bonding test(got a S by the way)...i think i was starting to lose confidence in myself...
as per normal,i checked my friends blogs and one touched me very much...from what i can gather,she is still sad about her old boyfriend breaking up with her and she also thinks that its her fault that the relatioship ended...add on the fact that she found another boyfriend so fast and i think i'm justified in worrying about her.I just wish that she could get over her old boyfriend and also watch out in case the present one is the "rebound guy"As numerous breakup books and articles and writing's say,its not YOUR fault if the guy breaks up with you.if you think that you did something to him to cause the breakup,look at it the other way and consider the fact that if he really loved you,he would forgive you and try to patch up the relationship.in other words,he would do something instead of taking the easy way out and dumping you.In fact,this process of making mistakes and forgiving is a very strong relationship builder.the simple fact that he dumped you means that his love was not strong enough to withstand the first crisis that came along...in that case,better to move on and try to find true love...
the above paragraph is embarassingly romantic but i really believe that that is what true love is and how it can help the couple get past any problems big or small...for a really good example,watch the movie "Love Actually".it is a beautiful movie where the breadth and depth of love is showcased in numerous little encounters and relationships.enough about love...i think i've exposed myself enough for one blog...next post,i'll add in a joke from a friends blog about the various JC's...